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I’m 24 years old and embarrassed that I’ve never dated anyone. How do I meet a girl? | Australian lifestyle
I have a bit of an embarrassing situation: I’m 24, single, a lesbian, and I’ve never been with anyone! I have had depression for a few years – a combination of family losses and years caring for my terminally ill mother, only going out to work. It’s been a lot, and I’m only just starting…
After Dad died I dressed like an extra from The Matrix. Now I’m blooming again like the flowers on my psychedelic new vest | Men’s fashion
First my dad died, followed by my gran, the resulting trauma forced me to quit my job, the love of my life left and before I knew it I was an only child who didn’t know who they were any more. All inside 18 months. I didn’t recognise the person who showed up at social…
My petty gripe: I just want one ding from speeding cyclists. How hard can it be? | Cycling
My family recently moved house (still unpacking those last non-priority boxes) to a spot near a shared pedestrian/cyclist pathway and a few suburbs further from the CBD. We’re enjoying an easy hour’s walk most mornings. We pass wetland reserves full of bird calls and flowering trees and shrubs, eventually reaching the beach, and never needing…
The bedding buying guide: everything you need to know, from Egyptian cotton to thread count and washing rules | Sleep
There is a lot of information online about what makes good bedding. Dig into it, however, and you’ll see that most advice comes from the bedding brands themselves, making it tricky to sort facts from marketing hype. The Guardian’s journalism is independent. We will earn a commission if you buy something through an affiliate link. Learn…
‘Everything we were taught about success is wrong’: how to find true fulfilment in your life and career | Life and style
Author Annie Dillard wrote that “how we spend our days is, of course, how we spend our lives”. So, how was it that I spent a large portion of my 20s terrified of the big, long life I had before me? After Stanford University, I’d moved to New York to work at Google but I…
‘The dreaded B-word’: how to start budgeting | US personal finance
For some, making a personal budget sounds about as appealing as licking a subway floor. “They think of it as the dreaded ‘B-word’,” says Robin Snell, a certified financial planner and founder of Nested Financial and Tax Planning. Money is emotional – it determines where we live, what we eat, the education and healthcare we…
I can’t believe it’s not denim: how fashion fell in love with fake jeans | Fashion
Those of us who wear jeans tend to do so for the following reasons: they’re durable, versatile, and timeless. But when it comes to comfort, well, that is usually more of a rare quality. Who doesn’t own a pair of jeans that are difficult to sit down in? But now, a new jean is challenging…